Posts by Adam Lee Rosenfeld

How You Can Get Your Childhood Back

Last weekend I want to an amusement park with my family, my wife’s parents, and her sister’s family. It was a small amusement park, and it was almost empty. It was a special time. Quiet, peaceful. At one point, I wandered into the indoor play area for children ages 2-4. My 2-year-old son and 4-year-old…

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This is Why You're Stressed, Exhausted, and in Debt

If You Build it, You Will Lose In the 1989 film, “Field of Dreams”, Kevin Costner plays the character of a farmer, growing corn. One day, as he’s working in the field, he hears a voice saying, “if you build it, they will come”. As the film continues, the voice repeats itself, and some seemingly…

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The One Decision That Frees You From Your Circumstances

The Beatles have a song called “Maxwell’s Silver Hammer”. It’s an upbeat tune about a series of cruel murders committed by a young man with seemingly paranormal abilities named Maxwell. Granted, it’s a weird story, but over the years it’s almost become a myth. Today the idea of “Maxwell’s Silver Hammer” means something a bit different.…

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Why am I Not a Millionaire Yet?

So much time is spent thinking about what I want. And there comes a certain point in life when you start to feel like your ability to perform and make a living are threatened. You’re getting older. You feel like your opportunities are shrinking. And then you start hanging on so dearly to what you…

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I Ran a Marathon. You Totally Can.

12 years ago, I had a few problems. I was faced with the responsibilities of marriage, fatherhood, and work. And as much as I tried to do my best in these areas, I just couldn’t figure out why life wasn’t going my way. I wanted to have steady income and be successful as an artist…

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You Need 1000 True Fans. I Have 12.

You’re worth something. You need to hear that today. There’s value in who you are. There’s something unique in you, and the world needs to know about it. So go paint a picture, write a song, or do a dance, and wait for the world to change. Sounds like a plan, right? Not as easy…

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Guy's Night Out? My Wife Won't Let Me.

Are you a married guy? (Most of this applies to the wives as well.) Maybe you’re familiar with the scenario where one of your friends messages you with something like: Guy’s night at ______’s place, bring ______. We’ll be playing ______ and watching ______. And you just stare blankly at the message. You have no…

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How to Break Free From Approval Addiction

I have a problem. I struggle with the need to be valued by my peers every day. I often find myself looking for that one bit of validation, that “like” on Facebook, that comment on my blog, so I can keep on going. I struggle with approval addiction. Do you? Looking to get better at managing…

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